It's only my opinion.
not the gospel truth...
No client will ever accuse me of wasting their time in a session.
One of the benefits of doing this work for two decades is that I grow more direct with each read. That does not preclude love — but sometimes love shows up as the Queen of Swords. However, I like to remind clients that what they hear is only my opinion, which they can use or discard.
No fillers, no fluff. I may be a chatty reader — but the energy of the session is always focused on you.
Remember that when you go to a medium, psychic or the best Tarot reader in the world and hear their words regarding your life:
It’s only an opinion.
Of course, this is part of the movie when I step in with a fresh bucket of popcorn and suggest, If any reader is creepy or tells you that you have a curse or “entities” around you, get the F out and block their energy. Don’t head to the basement in your underwear, carrying a flashlight!
How do I block their energy? you may ask.
I tend to say, You have no power over me. Get out and don’t come back. I then imagine a clear shield over my body and keep walking. Some readers draw their thumb and forefinger together to “close” the circle and others use the mirror method to reflect that person’s behavior back on themselves.
No one has power over you — unless you give it to them. No one is responsible for the steps you take or if you choose to marinate for years in an unhealthy situation.
That’s on you, babe.
When a client returns for a session and says, I can’t believe that I met that person — I never though I would or I’m feeling so much better than last time or I’ve worked it out with my colleague when I though for sure I’d quit — and thinks it’s something I did, I quickly correct them.
I’m just a seer, walking down a road of infinite possibilities.
It’s you who does the healing. It’s you who creates the path and it’s you who draws in every experience, which you then judge as good or bad — but that is only your opinion.
I’ve learned to gauge my energy and the people who arrive into my life because it’s all connected. I’m not a person who needs a lot of friends and I’ve gotten rid of the big mouths who attempt to tell me what to do (good luck!).
Yet a few slip in from time to time to say, Oh, this is what will happen when you get older. You’ll see.
I counter, I’ll never get old. I’ll never die. I do not believe in age. Those rules do not apply to me.
They don’t quite know what do with that — but shake their head in bemusement.
Never get old?? Never die?? Who do you think you are??
If you don’t know — you’ll never know.
It’s only an opinion. Theirs. Mine.
It’s my life to do with as I wish — and now it is joy and freedom and happiness. That’s my purpose. Joy. Freedom. Happiness. Let others have as much suffering as they wish. That’s on them — and perhaps as a soul/frequency (whatever word works for you), they wish to plumb the depths of this experience. I wouldn’t even try to stop them. Let them choose their own adventures.
I’ve had enough pain for this ride. Enough heartbreak. Enough disappointment. Check, check, check. Imprinted on my soul for eternity. Cool. Got it.
Now it’s joy, freedom and happiness. I am radiant, ageless and free.
Whenever I choose, I will slip out of this world into a greater expression of my unique essence, the me I’ve always been — and always will be, traveling on.